Ten everyday situations

Choose
your tone.

Which frequency do you lean towards?

Notice the conversational approaches you reach for in a few ordinary moments. Each of the six Toneweaver frequencies has something useful to offer.

No email needed. Your full reflection is yours to explore.

Book cover for Conversation Skills for Adults by Elian Sol, featuring the Toneweaver wheel with the six frequencies Drive, Balance, Warmth, Calm, Clarity and Silence.

The Toneweaver method at the heart of the book.

Drive
Balance
Silence
Warmth
Calm
Clarity

There are no right or wrong answers. Choose the response closest to what you would be likely to try first. If several fit, choose one for now. In real conversations, these approaches can blend.

Your result reflects your choices in these situations, not a fixed identity or a measure of how well you communicate. You can move back and change an answer before or after seeing your reflection.

Which response would you be most likely to try first? Choose one, then continue.

Every choice has equal weight. You can change your mind.

A moment of reflection

Explore all six frequencies

Each frequency has a job. Choose one that interests you and try its small experiment when the situation suits it.

Explore further

Continue with the book

If you are curious about the other frequencies, the Toneweaver book explores all six and how to choose or blend them in everyday conversations.

Conversation Skills for Adults:
Hone Your Tone and Sound Like You Mean It

By Elian Sol

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Chooseyour tone.

Continue with the book

A little more practice

Choose
your tone.